
It is important to be accepted by society:
This theme from American Literature is shown throughout "The Shipping News" as the characters are all trying to fit in. Quoyle is the one who finds the hardest time with this, though. As explained at the beginning of the book, Quoyle has gone through life with a very sad and pessimistic attitude. He has been living a terrible life, as "he survived childhood; at the state university, hand clapped over his chin, he camouflaged torment with smiles and silence. Stumbled through his twenties and into his thirties learning to seperate his feelings from his life, counting on nothing" (1). As shown through this description, it seems Quoyle really hasn't "been living his life" at all; just passing through life without enjoying it. When he was younger, he was tortured and made fun of by his peers for being a tall, fat, guy with a big chin. This obviously had a great affect on his character and confidence because he doesn't really have a close relationship with anybody. Proulx states that he "was learning to seperate his feeling from his life", which shows that he doesn't really know how to live. By not being accepted by society, he turned into a very lonely person who has never had the comfort of being part of something.
Another example that shows this theme in "The Shipping News" is Quoyle's father's attitude towards him. Throughout his life, Quoyle has never done anything that was "right" in his father's eyes. His father considered him a failure: "From this youngest son's failure to dog-paddle the father saw other failures multiply like an explosion of virulent cells-failure to speak clearly; failure to sit up straight; failure to get up in the morning; failure in attitude; failure in ambition and ability; indeed, in everything. His own failure" (2). Since he wasn't even accepted by his own father, his emotions were definately hurt, which showed in all of his actions. Quoyle didn't know how to be loved, which is probably why he ended up with Pearl and was taken advantage of. I feel that if he had been accepted by the people in his life when he was younger, he would have grown to be a more stable person, and his life would have turned out a lot differently.
In society, everyone wants to be accepted, and when they're not, they are greatly impacted. Quoyle has tried his whole life to be accepted, but there was always someone there to put him down: his father, his peers, and even his wife Petal. The only people that he had in his life before moving to Newfoundland was his wife, Bunny, Sunshine, and his only friend, Partridge. But once he moved to Newfoundland, many new people entered his life, and they accepted him for who he was. He begins to become a better person who now actually enjoys life, which shows how important it is for people to be accepted into society.
This theme from American Literature is shown throughout "The Shipping News" as the characters are all trying to fit in. Quoyle is the one who finds the hardest time with this, though. As explained at the beginning of the book, Quoyle has gone through life with a very sad and pessimistic attitude. He has been living a terrible life, as "he survived childhood; at the state university, hand clapped over his chin, he camouflaged torment with smiles and silence. Stumbled through his twenties and into his thirties learning to seperate his feelings from his life, counting on nothing" (1). As shown through this description, it seems Quoyle really hasn't "been living his life" at all; just passing through life without enjoying it. When he was younger, he was tortured and made fun of by his peers for being a tall, fat, guy with a big chin. This obviously had a great affect on his character and confidence because he doesn't really have a close relationship with anybody. Proulx states that he "was learning to seperate his feeling from his life", which shows that he doesn't really know how to live. By not being accepted by society, he turned into a very lonely person who has never had the comfort of being part of something.
Another example that shows this theme in "The Shipping News" is Quoyle's father's attitude towards him. Throughout his life, Quoyle has never done anything that was "right" in his father's eyes. His father considered him a failure: "From this youngest son's failure to dog-paddle the father saw other failures multiply like an explosion of virulent cells-failure to speak clearly; failure to sit up straight; failure to get up in the morning; failure in attitude; failure in ambition and ability; indeed, in everything. His own failure" (2). Since he wasn't even accepted by his own father, his emotions were definately hurt, which showed in all of his actions. Quoyle didn't know how to be loved, which is probably why he ended up with Pearl and was taken advantage of. I feel that if he had been accepted by the people in his life when he was younger, he would have grown to be a more stable person, and his life would have turned out a lot differently.
In society, everyone wants to be accepted, and when they're not, they are greatly impacted. Quoyle has tried his whole life to be accepted, but there was always someone there to put him down: his father, his peers, and even his wife Petal. The only people that he had in his life before moving to Newfoundland was his wife, Bunny, Sunshine, and his only friend, Partridge. But once he moved to Newfoundland, many new people entered his life, and they accepted him for who he was. He begins to become a better person who now actually enjoys life, which shows how important it is for people to be accepted into society.







